Why Anger?

Anger comes either from past or from future. But when we are in present, we are truly away from anger and purely into the relationship.

Usually we get angry for the things that has already happned and has hurted us in one way or other. So is there any use of getting angry over the thing that has already happned???? No use, because whatever has happned, has happned, we cant change it. But now our mind is worried about future!
what if they repeat the same in future?  what if they hurt me again with the same emotion? then there is an anger for insecurity in future. we dont want to get hurt again for the same thing.
what to do?
ofcourse, GET ANGRY!
and why we r angry? because our dear one has done somthing which is not acceptable by us, and we want them to be changed, or atleast relize that whatever u hv done that is not correct and it should not be repeated.
But, to my disappointment! ;-( If our getting angry over some person does not changes the person, then what is the solution?

Your views plz!

Love and mad man

 If you’ve ever been in love, you’ll know that it’s not easy to define or describe passionate love. You hardly eat, yet you aren’t hungry; but miraculously, you have boundless energy. Your mind is suffused with thoughts of the beloved, to the exclusion of all else. In such a state, there is no difference between a besotted Majnu or Romeo 

LOVE ! Truly Defined

What is love? 
You feel lonely, u need someone to fill ur loneliness. you call it love. You show it because thats the only way to hook the other. And other also call it love b'coz thats the only way to hook you.  Who knows whether there love or NOT! Love is just a GAME!
BUT,
REAL LOVE IS POSSIBLE, but that happens only when u dont need anybody.
When u dont need ny1, and u r absolutly happy within urself, within ur own world, then true love is possible. And then u can be sure that ur love is real, but there is no gurantee of the other party, BUT trust me then there is no need.
 But when u need someone, and then u call it love; WRONG INTERPRETATION!

Behind purposing someone/declaring the love, there is nothing but UR NEED. You want ur lover to be with u to fill ur emptiness and same is the case with her. Both are trying to use each other. and thats why problems occur between lovers, b'coz nobody  wants to be used.
Because when u use a person, the person becomes a thing, you have reduced him to a commodity. 
But whn u'll really realize, when u'll be awake, then u'll be able to love truly. But then u'll be certain abt ur love only. 
But thats more than enough that atleast u r certain abt ur love.


Love is a fiction, it will not last forever. Enjoy it till it lasts! Be together while u can be together! Live it as beautifully as possible! 


When a love is finished, and it does, we start thinking IT WAS FALSE LOVE, thats why it came to an END. Thats not true Always! It may have had some truth in it, but u both were unable to keep and hold that truth. You needed love but u were nt capable of it. 
First love urself, when u really love urself, when u r enjoying ur own world u don't need to USE ny1. u just share it. And u'll be thankful if sombody receives it. Thats true love!