Anger comes either from past or from future. But when we are in present, we are truly away from anger and purely into the relationship.
Usually we get angry for the things that has already happned and has hurted us in one way or other. So is there any use of getting angry over the thing that has already happned???? No use, because whatever has happned, has happned, we cant change it. But now our mind is worried about future!
what if they repeat the same in future? what if they hurt me again with the same emotion? then there is an anger for insecurity in future. we dont want to get hurt again for the same thing.
what to do?
ofcourse, GET ANGRY!
and why we r angry? because our dear one has done somthing which is not acceptable by us, and we want them to be changed, or atleast relize that whatever u hv done that is not correct and it should not be repeated.
But, to my disappointment! ;-( If our getting angry over some person does not changes the person, then what is the solution?
Your views plz!
Usually we get angry for the things that has already happned and has hurted us in one way or other. So is there any use of getting angry over the thing that has already happned???? No use, because whatever has happned, has happned, we cant change it. But now our mind is worried about future!
what if they repeat the same in future? what if they hurt me again with the same emotion? then there is an anger for insecurity in future. we dont want to get hurt again for the same thing.
what to do?
ofcourse, GET ANGRY!
and why we r angry? because our dear one has done somthing which is not acceptable by us, and we want them to be changed, or atleast relize that whatever u hv done that is not correct and it should not be repeated.
But, to my disappointment! ;-( If our getting angry over some person does not changes the person, then what is the solution?
Your views plz!
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